Uncontrollable but Permissive Emotions

In secondary school (not high school, secondary school...lol) I was often regarded as emotionless, basically the only emotions I exhibited publicly were anger and frustration. My God I could get angry. I remember once throwing my classmates Locker outside the class while I was in Jss2. Well that's another story. Honestly, how or why I went through this period I do not know. But what I know is I learnt a great deal about bridling emotions.

I discovered that though love was unpredictable in certain context and that it was almost uncontrollable, love needs your permission to operate in your mind or heart or whichever you prefer.

My discovery was put to the test in my first year in university. But that story will come in some time in the future. 

I need you to understand that love is a choice and not by force. 'I just can't stop liking her or hims a lie that we have told ourselves time and time again. Use this analogy, if you het dumped, you may cry, be sad, get depressed, but you always get over it. That's what I am telling you get over it! 

Get over that guy or that girl that dumped you, if they really did like or love you (which ever term you prefer) they would have stayed (except you are that bad). You permit yourself to like who you want and subsequently I will try to show you how.